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The Distress Cycle - Knowing It and Taming It
A helpful way to understand distress is to treat it not as a personal failing, but as a sequence: a chain reaction you can learn to recognise earlier, rather than only making sense of it all afterwards - once you can see the sequence, you can start noticing where you are in it and how to potentially intervene.

Andrew
Mar 15 min read


Hating Help
When support feels irritating, even aggravating or worse, it may be protecting something tender.

Andrew
Jan 44 min read


Unpacking the Roots of Eating Disorders
I’ve sat with people whose lives have been narrowed by food — not simply by what they eat, but by what eating has come to mean . Some arrive with numbers and rules: calories, weigh-ins, rituals, the blunt logic of control. Others speak in a quieter register: exhaustion, shame, dread, a body that feels like an accusation, an appetite that feels like a moral failure. From the outside, it can look like a problem of discipline or appearance. From the inside, it is more often a pr

Andrew
Jan 19, 20254 min read


Telephone Anxiety: Dialing In
Avoiding phone calls will impact your personal and professional opportunities. Whether it's arranging an appointment, handling work-related

Andrew
Sep 1, 20242 min read


10 Ways to Reduce Social and Performance Anxiety
10 Ways to Reduce Social and Performance Anxiety

Andrew
Aug 21, 20242 min read


The Ancient Roots of Anxiety
Intrusive thoughts, which often underlie anxiety, have a historical purpose. In the early days of human evolution, these thoughts served as a protective mechanism, keeping individuals safe from harm.

Andrew
Feb 1, 20232 min read


Hell in the Self
Contrary to a glib understanding of some French authors, hell can more often be a personal one than that found when in the company of others

Andrew
Dec 4, 20203 min read


Self-compassion
Self-compassion is a way of viewing oneself under challenging times. It involves taking a kind, non-critical, and accepting stance...

Andrew
Nov 28, 20202 min read


Crisis Point
Today is what matters; just getting through today. All you'll ever have to do is get through one day, and you've done that many times before

Andrew
Nov 14, 20204 min read


On CBT and the NHS
None of us can be summed up in one word in the same way that easy answers rarely solve complex problems.

Andrew
Nov 12, 20203 min read


My Journey In Counselling (Part 1)
One section of the entry requirements I was reading stood out. "You must have your own personal lived experience of mental health problems".

Andrew
Oct 30, 20202 min read


Best Intentions and Self-care
Having the best intentions when attempting to help someone, as many of you will have experienced, can be less than straightforward. . .

Andrew
Oct 21, 20203 min read
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